The Bedroom Commandments
Spirituality and sexuality have a long, complicated entanglement. It’s not that they’re not meant to be together: in fact, I would argue that they are. But, like a couple with meddling friends who have not yet sorted out their own lives, they have been pushed and prodded in a million directions. The precise way in … Read more
Approaches to Breaking Up
Pragmatically, if you enter into a relationship, there are two possible outcomes: you either stay together or you break up. This fact, coupled with anxiety about the reality of either option, is why many people aren’t fans of getting into relationships. But most of us still do and very nearly all of us survive the … Read more
The Art of Seduction with Arden Leigh, Part II
Men have a cachet of lines, wingmen and a whole industry to support their arsenal of pickup artistry. Women, on the other hand, are coached to be very pretty and not too look interested. Most advice to females has to do with seeming unavailable long enough to convince a dude he should be in a … Read more
Sex: Female
In 2001, a couple of normal middle-aged dudes asked a bunch of women about sex. Under regular circumstances, this request could yield everything from a slap across the face to a quick trip to a Holiday Inn, depending on the dude and the woman and the proximity of whiskey. In this particular instance, Andrew Kolker and … Read more
Seduction Tactics for Women from Arden Leigh
Although they are beautiful, intelligent, educated, independent, hilarious, kind and fun creatures, several of my female friends are quite single, despite their desire to be otherwise. You may have friends in a similar situations. Perhaps you are one of my friends. If so, HI! Let’s hang out! I miss you! The advice books for these … Read more
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