Are we meant to be non-monogamous?
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Are we meant to be non-monogamous?

Hey Friends! I’m in Africa for a couple weeks. So this is an classic column that first ran in 2010. Questions? Comments? Violent reactions? Email sexwithtimaree@gmail.com or tweet @timaree_leigh See more at http://www.facebook.com/sexwithtimaree and http://tinyurl.com/swtpod Question to the Sexpert: “For a long time I felt this way. Thankfully my fiancee is the shit and we … Continue reading

Valentine’s Day Breakups
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Valentine’s Day Breakups

What accounts for this trend? Why would so many people have so much drama right around the time of year when the entire force of the marketing power of the US Economy is selling messages that if you truly love your woman, you will give her something that required an African child to lose a minimum of an arm to acquire? I mean, that’s not putting any pressure on anyone. Continue reading

When Can We Bang?
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When Can We Bang?

Getting friendzoned is really a matter of fate. You don’t put yourself by waiting too long, no matter how many people like to think that. If she thinks you’re sexy and she wants your motion in her ocean, she’ll want it on the 22nd date as much as she wants it on the 2nd. If there is sex that you would get on date 3 that you wouldn’t get on date 13, then it’s just very temporary sex anyway. Continue reading

Arden Leigh Drinks the Tears of Her Vanquished Enemies
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Arden Leigh Drinks the Tears of Her Vanquished Enemies

There’s a scene in the neuvo-classic film Legally Blonde where Professor Callahan (played by Victor Garber who just came out and his boyfriend is smooooookin, but I digress) says of main character Elle Woods, “Do you think she woke up one morning and said: I think I’ll go to law school today.” When I talk … Continue reading

“But Our Contract Says We’ll Have Sex Twice a Week….”
abstinence / Bisexuality / dating / Desire / Gender / Group Sex / Infidelity / LGBT / Long Term Relationships / Marriage / sexuality education

“But Our Contract Says We’ll Have Sex Twice a Week….”

You may recall that I posted about the sexuality training that I conducted with Widener University’s Residence Assistants. These young folks are on the front lines of dealing with the sexuality issues of college freshmen: directing them to everything from body image and safer sex resources to where to turn if they’ve experienced a sexual assault.  … Continue reading