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Myths about Bisexuality
Bisexuality / Coming Out / dating / Desire / Gender / Infidelity / LGBT / Long Term Relationships / Podcast

Myths about Bisexuality

Answering reader queries is always one of my favorites. This time I talk about bisexuality: the realities, the misconceptions, the utter nonsense. Good validation for all my fellow dual citizens, solid information for anyone who knows or loves a daywalker and plenty of interesting dinner conversation for anyone else. Listen to it here or on iTunes, Podbay, … Continue reading

Friday Sex Links
Sex in the news / Sex Links

Friday Sex Links

What fantasies are most common? Most common problems people have in bed. Why everyone should try a long distance relationship. The sad case of the emotionally unavailable woman. Court reverses rulings in 4 states, upholding marriage bans. On going commando under workout clothes. What foods make your cum taste better? Catcalling basics for men. Engaging … Continue reading

Foot Fetish Philandering Fear
Desire / Erections / Fantasy / Fetish / Gender / Infidelity / Long Term Relationships

Foot Fetish Philandering Fear

It’s Throwback Thursday, time for a classic column. This post originally ran in December 2009. Question to the Sexpert: “My boyfriend has a foot fetish and it’s fine with me. I’ve learned what he likes and how to keep my feet looking pretty. But there are some worries I have and I don’t know who … Continue reading

Can At-Home STI Screening Be Romantic?
Anatomy/Physiology / dating / Podcast / safer sex / Sexually Transmitted Infections

Can At-Home STI Screening Be Romantic?

Getting screened for sexually transmitted infections can be a daunting, expensive, time consuming chore.Most doctors don’t think to ask, although most sexually active adults are exposed to a variety of STIs. And while it shouldn’t be a big deal to ask to be tested, some folks find it  a little embarrassing. Laura Ivanova and Ursula Hessenflow have … Continue reading