This weekend I was lucky enough to sit in on a meeting of the Delaware Valley Synergy in a gorgeous home in the suburbs of Philadelphia. This diverse group of people have one thing in common: open relationships. All the people in this group are swingers, polyamorous or otherwise engaged in THE LIFESTYLE (as it is so often called). These are folks who believe that you can love more than one person at a time, be sexually active with multiple people while maintaining an emotional bond with only one…. or other incarnations of group sex.
I didn’t know what to expect when I met this group. It turned out they were happy, contemplative and awesome. And they are not unlike you. They experience sexual jealousy. They feel desperately insecure. They want to bang people who are not their current spouse. And they have learned, through trial and error, how to navigate the communication necessary for such an arrangement to work.
So listen in for advice on marriage, being real to your partners and acknowledging sexual tension in friendships.