Media representations teach us about different types of people and what they are like. Media representations of sex are sometimes really crappy, giving people messed up ideas about what getting it on should look like.
What can we do about that? Antonia Damerell advocates more more diverse and realistic depictions of both females and of sexuality. She talks about these issues and many more on her show The Orgasm Challenge on Control Top TV and through her organization, Come as You Are. We had a rad chat that goes way beyond the Bechdel test.