Maybe you’re not looking for something serious right now. Perhaps you have a good looking friend who is DTF but neither of you feels inclined towards actually dating. Possibly you had a one-night hook up with whom you have exceptional sexual chemistry but everlasting romance isn’t in the cards. Whatever the reason, navigating a friends-with-benefits situation requires different skills than monogamous dating and fucking. Prompted by a reader question, I outline some helpful ideas and ask questions to get you thinking about what you really want and propose some methods of FINDING this special new friend.