I’ve never gotten off. What if I’m broken? Tales of (and solutions to!) Pre-orgasmia
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I’ve never gotten off. What if I’m broken? Tales of (and solutions to!) Pre-orgasmia

It’s #TBT kittens and time for a vintage podcast. This one originally went up October of 2012! “I used to be able to get off with no problem. Not anymore. Now I don’t even have much interest in sex and if I do have sex, I end up faking it.” “I’ve never had an orgasm. … Continue reading

A List of Common Misconceptions
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A List of Common Misconceptions

What was the first thing you remember being told about sex that was just…. wrong? More than almost any subject, we get factually incorrect information about human sexuality. Maybe an adult mislead you, perhaps a peer misunderstood how things really work, it could have even been in a classroom. Part of the issue is that … Continue reading

Dealing with “Well Meaning” Slut-Shamers
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Dealing with “Well Meaning” Slut-Shamers

It’s Thursday and time for a #TBT vintage podcast. This one originally went up July 2014. The Christian mommy blogger who wrote “My Husband Doesn’t Need to See Your Boobs” was only the tip of the iceberg. Plenty of folks are aware that it’s inappropriate and mean to call someone a harlot directly, but it … Continue reading

Sex Positive Feminism: A How-To Guide
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Sex Positive Feminism: A How-To Guide

Hey friends, it’s #TBT and time for a vintage podcast. This one first went up in August of 2014. I was recently granted the rad opportunity to present at a DIY Skillshare conference in West Philadelphia and asked to share my how-to knowledge about being a sex positive feminist.  What do those words even mean? … Continue reading

Skin Hunger, Condoms and the Life in the Dorms
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Skin Hunger, Condoms and the Life in the Dorms

Happy Throwback Thursday, y’all. For #TBT we’re checking out a podcast that originally went up in November of 2012. There are a few jobs where people work the sexual front lines and can really make a difference in the sexual behavior of others. Gynecologists, HIV testers, and relationship counselors may come to mind. But an … Continue reading

The Fetishization of Virginity
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The Fetishization of Virginity

Throwback Thursday, y’all. Time for a vintage piece that originally went up in September of 2012. What is virginity? Many people only know it by its loss, which is identified as a penis entering a vagina for the first time. But what if you’ve had oral sex? Or an anal sex? You can get a … Continue reading

Sex with Doctors
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Sex with Doctors

Hey, kittens. It’s #ThrowbackThursday and time for a classic piece. This originally ran in August of 2011. ….That is, talking to doctors about sex… and we’re both doctors… and it’s called Sex with Timaree…. oh, you get it. Strap on your smart kid pants because this is one of the most informative, fact-packed Sex with … Continue reading