Openly Gay Athletes
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Openly Gay Athletes

Time for #TBT and a vintage column. This post originally went up in January of 2012. Sports and sexuality have a long, complicated and occasionally sordid shared history. Ideas about gender roles and the interaction between sexual orientation and gender expression have colored the expectations many people have about who can be athletic… and who … Continue reading

Surrogate Sex Partners: a Conversation with Mark Shattuck
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Surrogate Sex Partners: a Conversation with Mark Shattuck

It’s #TBT and time for a vintage episode! This one originally went up in September of 2012! If you’re having sexual difficulties in your relationship, you and your partner can go visit with a sex therapist. The therapist can talk with you about what’s going on, chat about what your sex life is like and … Continue reading

What Gets Shanna Katz Excited?
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What Gets Shanna Katz Excited?

It’s #TBT and time for a vintage episode. This one first went up in May of 2014.   In some ways, Shanna Katz is the Stephen King of sex education. This board certified sexologist and professional pervert has been cranking out new books like nobody’s business over the last few years, including Lesbian Sex Positions: 100 … Continue reading

Fat Sex: The Naked Truth
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Fat Sex: The Naked Truth

I can’t remember the first time I heard the joke “having sex with a fat girl is like riding a moped. It’s a lot of fun, but don’t let your friends find out.”

I was definitely a little kid, though. And it struck me, like a verbal smack to the side of the head. It encapsulated so many things that, as a young girl, I was just beginning to see were going to be sold to me as truth. Continue reading

Take a Trip to the Woodhull Sexual Freedom Summit
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Take a Trip to the Woodhull Sexual Freedom Summit

It’s time for #TBT and a vintage podcast- this one originally ran in November of 2014. I’ll be headed back to the Woodhull Summit this fall, presenting on the origins of SEXx and running a sex positive collective.  This year I had the opportunity to present a Sexercise workshop at the Woodhull Sexual Freedom Summit, an annual … Continue reading

Competitive Erotic Fan Fiction
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Competitive Erotic Fan Fiction

Y’all, it’s #TBT and time for a classic podcast. This one originally went up in January of 2017. If you don’t already know about fan fiction, you betta ask somebody. Fine, I’ll tell you. Fans take characters from… literally whatever… and write their own stories. Sometimes it get sexual, especially in the case of slash fiction. And … Continue reading

Tough Cookies: Sexuality and Feminism with a Lesbian Slant
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Tough Cookies: Sexuality and Feminism with a Lesbian Slant

Hey all, it’s #TBT and time for a vintage podcast that originally went up in May of 2012. Since this episode, Melissa Fabello has built an empire online for body positivity and feminism. Check out her more recent work. Melissa Fabello was growing tired of the lesbian blog scene. From her vantage, a space that … Continue reading