Fat Sex: The Naked Truth
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Fat Sex: The Naked Truth

I can’t remember the first time I heard the joke “having sex with a fat girl is like riding a moped. It’s a lot of fun, but don’t let your friends find out.”

I was definitely a little kid, though. And it struck me, like a verbal smack to the side of the head. It encapsulated so many things that, as a young girl, I was just beginning to see were going to be sold to me as truth. Continue reading

Take a Trip to the Woodhull Sexual Freedom Summit
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Take a Trip to the Woodhull Sexual Freedom Summit

It’s time for #TBT and a vintage podcast- this one originally ran in November of 2014. I’ll be headed back to the Woodhull Summit this fall, presenting on the origins of SEXx and running a sex positive collective.  This year I had the opportunity to present a Sexercise workshop at the Woodhull Sexual Freedom Summit, an annual … Continue reading

Competitive Erotic Fan Fiction
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Competitive Erotic Fan Fiction

Y’all, it’s #TBT and time for a classic podcast. This one originally went up in January of 2017. If you don’t already know about fan fiction, you betta ask somebody. Fine, I’ll tell you. Fans take characters from… literally whatever… and write their own stories. Sometimes it get sexual, especially in the case of slash fiction. And … Continue reading

Tough Cookies: Sexuality and Feminism with a Lesbian Slant
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Tough Cookies: Sexuality and Feminism with a Lesbian Slant

Hey all, it’s #TBT and time for a vintage podcast that originally went up in May of 2012. Since this episode, Melissa Fabello has built an empire online for body positivity and feminism. Check out her more recent work. Melissa Fabello was growing tired of the lesbian blog scene. From her vantage, a space that … Continue reading

Skin Hunger, Condoms and the Life in the Dorms
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Skin Hunger, Condoms and the Life in the Dorms

Happy Throwback Thursday, y’all. For #TBT we’re checking out a podcast that originally went up in November of 2012. There are a few jobs where people work the sexual front lines and can really make a difference in the sexual behavior of others. Gynecologists, HIV testers, and relationship counselors may come to mind. But an … Continue reading

Strip Club Etiquette for Women
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Strip Club Etiquette for Women

· DRESS APPROPRIATELY- Don’t go in there trying to out-skank the dancers by wearing something overly revealing and/or glittery. This, like the following rule, is because every drop of attention you take from the women at work is going to come back to haunt you. If the creepier menfolk there don’t make you regret the decision, the dancers surely will. Continue reading