“But Our Contract Says We’ll Have Sex Twice a Week….”
abstinence / Bisexuality / dating / Desire / Gender / Group Sex / Infidelity / LGBT / Long Term Relationships / Marriage / sexuality education

“But Our Contract Says We’ll Have Sex Twice a Week….”

Hey frans, it’s #TBT and time for a vintage podcast. This one originally went up in November of 2012.  You may recall that I posted about the sexuality training that I conducted with Widener University’s Residence Assistants. These young folks are on the front lines of dealing with the sexuality issues of college freshmen: directing them … Continue reading

Is Anal Sex Inherently Gay?
anal sex / Bisexuality / Coming Out / Desire / Fantasy / LGBT / orgasms

Is Anal Sex Inherently Gay?

Hey friends, it’s #TBT and time for a vintage column. This one is originally from September of 2008. DAAANG.  Question to the Sexpert: “A couple of weeks ago you answered a question from a girl whose boyfriend was really into anal, both giving and receiving. I read some of the comments people posted and I … Continue reading

Burlesque at Noir Con! Our 100th Episode!
Bisexuality / Body Image / censorship / Desire / Fantasy / Feminism / Gender / media / Pornography / Prostitution

Burlesque at Noir Con! Our 100th Episode!

#TBT and time for a vintage episode. This first went up in February of 2013. For fans of the noir genre, NoirCon is an idyllic haven. Brainy, beguiling folks from both the consumer and production end of the world of dark, crime-filled books gather to discuss the stories they love. And this year there was … Continue reading

Karen BK Chan on Improvisational Sex
Anatomy/Physiology / Bisexuality / Body Image / contraception / dating / media / orgasms / Podcast / safer sex / sexuality education

Karen BK Chan on Improvisational Sex

It’s #TBT and time for a vintage podcast. This interview is a personal favorite and the work of Karen BK Chan continues to be something I reference regularly. This episode originally aired in July of 2014. Enjoy! When I came across Karen BK Chan‘s stunning video Jam, my life was forever changed for the better … Continue reading

Openly Gay Athletes
Bisexuality / Body Image / Coming Out / Gender / LGBT

Openly Gay Athletes

Time for #TBT and a vintage column. This post originally went up in January of 2012. Sports and sexuality have a long, complicated and occasionally sordid shared history. Ideas about gender roles and the interaction between sexual orientation and gender expression have colored the expectations many people have about who can be athletic… and who … Continue reading

Surrogate Sex Partners: a Conversation with Mark Shattuck
Bisexuality / Body Image / dating / Gender / LGBT / Long Term Relationships / Male Ejaculation / masturbation / orgasms / sexuality education

Surrogate Sex Partners: a Conversation with Mark Shattuck

It’s #TBT and time for a vintage episode! This one originally went up in September of 2012! If you’re having sexual difficulties in your relationship, you and your partner can go visit with a sex therapist. The therapist can talk with you about what’s going on, chat about what your sex life is like and … Continue reading

What Gets Shanna Katz Excited?
Anatomy/Physiology / BDSM / Bisexuality / Body Image / dating / LGBT / Long Term Relationships / oral sex / Podcast / Sex Toys / sexuality education

What Gets Shanna Katz Excited?

It’s #TBT and time for a vintage episode. This one first went up in May of 2014.   In some ways, Shanna Katz is the Stephen King of sex education. This board certified sexologist and professional pervert has been cranking out new books like nobody’s business over the last few years, including Lesbian Sex Positions: 100 … Continue reading