Openly Gay Athletes
Bisexuality / Body Image / Coming Out / Gender / LGBT

Openly Gay Athletes

Time for #TBT and a vintage column. This post originally went up in January of 2012. Sports and sexuality have a long, complicated and occasionally sordid shared history. Ideas about gender roles and the interaction between sexual orientation and gender expression have colored the expectations many people have about who can be athletic… and who … Continue reading

I’ve never gotten off. What if I’m broken? Tales of (and solutions to!) Pre-orgasmia
abstinence / Anatomy/Physiology / Body Image / Desire / masturbation / orgasms / Podcast / Sex Toys

I’ve never gotten off. What if I’m broken? Tales of (and solutions to!) Pre-orgasmia

It’s #TBT kittens and time for a vintage podcast. This one originally went up October of 2012! “I used to be able to get off with no problem. Not anymore. Now I don’t even have much interest in sex and if I do have sex, I end up faking it.” “I’ve never had an orgasm. … Continue reading

Surrogate Sex Partners: a Conversation with Mark Shattuck
Bisexuality / Body Image / dating / Gender / LGBT / Long Term Relationships / Male Ejaculation / masturbation / orgasms / sexuality education

Surrogate Sex Partners: a Conversation with Mark Shattuck

It’s #TBT and time for a vintage episode! This one originally went up in September of 2012! If you’re having sexual difficulties in your relationship, you and your partner can go visit with a sex therapist. The therapist can talk with you about what’s going on, chat about what your sex life is like and … Continue reading

What Gets Shanna Katz Excited?
Anatomy/Physiology / BDSM / Bisexuality / Body Image / dating / LGBT / Long Term Relationships / oral sex / Podcast / Sex Toys / sexuality education

What Gets Shanna Katz Excited?

It’s #TBT and time for a vintage episode. This one first went up in May of 2014.   In some ways, Shanna Katz is the Stephen King of sex education. This board certified sexologist and professional pervert has been cranking out new books like nobody’s business over the last few years, including Lesbian Sex Positions: 100 … Continue reading

Fat Sex: The Naked Truth
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Fat Sex: The Naked Truth

I can’t remember the first time I heard the joke “having sex with a fat girl is like riding a moped. It’s a lot of fun, but don’t let your friends find out.”

I was definitely a little kid, though. And it struck me, like a verbal smack to the side of the head. It encapsulated so many things that, as a young girl, I was just beginning to see were going to be sold to me as truth. Continue reading

Cosplay Deviants: Undressing the Art of Playing Dress Up
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Cosplay Deviants: Undressing the Art of Playing Dress Up

Hey all, it’s #TBT and time for a vintage podcast. This one is hella old and originally went up in October of 2012. Happy Halloween, kittens! It’s my FAVORITE holiday of all. Even if you’re not swept up in celebrating Samhaim, you gotta love the candy and, of course, the costumes. But at Cosplay Deviants, … Continue reading