Karen BK Chan on Improvisational Sex
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Karen BK Chan on Improvisational Sex

It’s #TBT and time for a vintage podcast. This interview is a personal favorite and the work of Karen BK Chan continues to be something I reference regularly. This episode originally aired in July of 2014. Enjoy! When I came across Karen BK Chan‘s stunning video Jam, my life was forever changed for the better … Continue reading

A Visit to the National Sex Ed Conference
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A Visit to the National Sex Ed Conference

Hey friends, it’s #TBT and that means revisiting a classic podcast! This one first went up in January of 2014. You can register now for the next National Sex Ed Conference being held in December! The magnificent Melissa Fabello and I went on a magical adventure to…. try to contain your jealousy… East Rutherford, NJ. … Continue reading

Skin Hunger, Condoms and the Life in the Dorms
abstinence / anal sex / Anatomy/Physiology / Bisexuality / Body Image / Coming Out / contraception / dating / Gender / Infidelity / LGBT / Long Term Relationships / oral sex / Podcast / Rape / safer sex / sexuality education / Sexually Transmitted Infections

Skin Hunger, Condoms and the Life in the Dorms

Happy Throwback Thursday, y’all. For #TBT we’re checking out a podcast that originally went up in November of 2012. There are a few jobs where people work the sexual front lines and can really make a difference in the sexual behavior of others. Gynecologists, HIV testers, and relationship counselors may come to mind. But an … Continue reading

Can You Be Honest About Your Sexual History?
Coming Out / contraception / dating / Desire / Long Term Relationships / Podcast / Rape / safer sex / Sexually Transmitted Infections

Can You Be Honest About Your Sexual History?

Hey friends, it’s Throwback Thursday and we’re checking out an episode of the podcast from February, 2014.  I answer a question about the ethics of honest sexual history discussions, and what is required for informed consent. Do you have to tell your partner about every little thing? Should they have to ask directly? Does it … Continue reading

Pulling Out All The Stops
Anatomy/Physiology / censorship / contraception / Long Term Relationships / Male Ejaculation / media / orgasms / Pregnancy / safer sex / sexuality education / Sexually Transmitted Infections

Pulling Out All The Stops

Hey, kittens. It’s #TBT and time for a vintage column. This one originally ran in July of 2009 and has been updated. Questions to the Sexpert: “You posted a link to a story about how pulling out is just as effective as condoms. This has got to be wrong. What was the point of all … Continue reading

The Antihistamine- Vaginal Dryness Conspiracy
Anatomy/Physiology / contraception / Desire / Female Ejaculation / safer sex / Sexually Transmitted Infections / Stress

The Antihistamine- Vaginal Dryness Conspiracy

Unlike the myth that douching with soda after sex can prevent pregnancy or the myth that “no, really, this has never happened to me before. I guess I just got really excited,” this actually has truth to it. Antihistamines and decongestants are prime offenders in the war on adequate vaginal wetness. Continue reading

The Latest in Contraceptives with Martha Kempner
contraception / Podcast

The Latest in Contraceptives with Martha Kempner

What are the latest innovations in NOT getting pregnant? HR Reality Checker writer and sex educator Martha Kempner joins me for a conversation about Caya (the latest iteration of the diaphragm), custom condoms, IUDs and more! Listen to it here or on iTunes, Podbay, or Feedburner, where you can subscribe and get all the episodes even sooner! Questions? … Continue reading