Is the Friendzone a Real Thing?
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Is the Friendzone a Real Thing?

#TBT and time for a vintage episode. This one originally went up in September of 2012. Some young men who think of themselves as “nice guys who finish last” commonly complain: “all the girls go for jerks” and lament that the females they are interested in have shoved them into The Box From Which One … Continue reading

Urban Legends about Sexuality: Podcast with Dr. Henken Pt II
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Urban Legends about Sexuality: Podcast with Dr. Henken Pt II

TBT to a vintage episode! This originally went up in February of 2012. If you didn’t catch Part I of this phenomenal interview, then you turn your horse right around this instant and go check it out. You’ve heard them…. you’ve probably told them: stories that happened to a friend of a friend (FOAF) or … Continue reading

“But Our Contract Says We’ll Have Sex Twice a Week….”
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“But Our Contract Says We’ll Have Sex Twice a Week….”

Hey frans, it’s #TBT and time for a vintage podcast. This one originally went up in November of 2012.  You may recall that I posted about the sexuality training that I conducted with Widener University’s Residence Assistants. These young folks are on the front lines of dealing with the sexuality issues of college freshmen: directing them … Continue reading

Eric Smith: The Geek’s Guide to Dating
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Eric Smith: The Geek’s Guide to Dating

It’s #TBT and time for a vintage podcast. This one originally went up in December of 2013. It’s timely as the subject of this interview has moved on to even more exciting things and the site he co-founded is saying its goodbyes.  I’m totally not sure how Eric Smith, co-founder of Geekadelphia, found time to … Continue reading

Karen BK Chan on Improvisational Sex
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Karen BK Chan on Improvisational Sex

It’s #TBT and time for a vintage podcast. This interview is a personal favorite and the work of Karen BK Chan continues to be something I reference regularly. This episode originally aired in July of 2014. Enjoy! When I came across Karen BK Chan‘s stunning video Jam, my life was forever changed for the better … Continue reading

A Visit to the National Sex Ed Conference
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A Visit to the National Sex Ed Conference

Hey friends, it’s #TBT and that means revisiting a classic podcast! This one first went up in January of 2014. You can register now for the next National Sex Ed Conference being held in December! The magnificent Melissa Fabello and I went on a magical adventure to…. try to contain your jealousy… East Rutherford, NJ. … Continue reading

Surrogate Sex Partners: a Conversation with Mark Shattuck
Bisexuality / Body Image / dating / Gender / LGBT / Long Term Relationships / Male Ejaculation / masturbation / orgasms / sexuality education

Surrogate Sex Partners: a Conversation with Mark Shattuck

It’s #TBT and time for a vintage episode! This one originally went up in September of 2012! If you’re having sexual difficulties in your relationship, you and your partner can go visit with a sex therapist. The therapist can talk with you about what’s going on, chat about what your sex life is like and … Continue reading