FYI: You’re Not Helping
Body Image / Desire / evolutionary psychology / Feminism / Gender / media / Rape

FYI: You’re Not Helping

It’s #TBT and time for a vintage column. This originally went up in September of 2013. Viral is as viral does. This week’s latest: FYI (if you’re a teenage girl) Cliff Notes version: a mother of teenage boys worries about the impact of teenage girls and their selfies on her sons. She encourages females to temper the … Continue reading

Is the Friendzone a Real Thing?
dating / Desire / evolutionary psychology / Gender / Long Term Relationships / Podcast

Is the Friendzone a Real Thing?

#TBT and time for a vintage episode. This one originally went up in September of 2012. Some young men who think of themselves as “nice guys who finish last” commonly complain: “all the girls go for jerks” and lament that the females they are interested in have shoved them into The Box From Which One … Continue reading

In My Basement with Johnny Goodtimes: 50 Shades of Magic Mike
BDSM / Body Image / censorship / Desire / Fantasy / Gender / media / Pornography

In My Basement with Johnny Goodtimes: 50 Shades of Magic Mike

It’s #TBT and time to pull a relic from the archives. This post originally went up in July of 2012. Johnny Goodtimes of the Philly Post invited me to another joyously creepy episode of In My Basement, the talk show that takes place in his super bizarre unfinished basement. We talk about how best seller 50 … Continue reading

“But Our Contract Says We’ll Have Sex Twice a Week….”
abstinence / Bisexuality / dating / Desire / Gender / Group Sex / Infidelity / LGBT / Long Term Relationships / Marriage / sexuality education

“But Our Contract Says We’ll Have Sex Twice a Week….”

Hey frans, it’s #TBT and time for a vintage podcast. This one originally went up in November of 2012.  You may recall that I posted about the sexuality training that I conducted with Widener University’s Residence Assistants. These young folks are on the front lines of dealing with the sexuality issues of college freshmen: directing them … Continue reading

Is Anal Sex Inherently Gay?
anal sex / Bisexuality / Coming Out / Desire / Fantasy / LGBT / orgasms

Is Anal Sex Inherently Gay?

Hey friends, it’s #TBT and time for a vintage column. This one is originally from September of 2008. DAAANG.  Question to the Sexpert: “A couple of weeks ago you answered a question from a girl whose boyfriend was really into anal, both giving and receiving. I read some of the comments people posted and I … Continue reading

Burlesque at Noir Con! Our 100th Episode!
Bisexuality / Body Image / censorship / Desire / Fantasy / Feminism / Gender / media / Pornography / Prostitution

Burlesque at Noir Con! Our 100th Episode!

#TBT and time for a vintage episode. This first went up in February of 2013. For fans of the noir genre, NoirCon is an idyllic haven. Brainy, beguiling folks from both the consumer and production end of the world of dark, crime-filled books gather to discuss the stories they love. And this year there was … Continue reading