Jacques: A Lad Mag for the New Millenium
Body Image / Desire / media / Podcast / Pornography

Jacques: A Lad Mag for the New Millenium

Hey friends, it’s #TBT and time for a vintage episode! This one originally went up in March of 2015! Before we could talk about the motivation behind Jacques, a retro-inspired “slick” magazine that features un-retouched film photos of natural beauties in the flesh, I had a burning question for founder Danielle Leder: who starts a … Continue reading

A Perfect Ending: Interview with the Star and Filmmakers
Bisexuality / Body Image / Coming Out / Desire / Fantasy / Feminism / Gender / media

A Perfect Ending: Interview with the Star and Filmmakers

It’s #TBT and time for a vintage podcast. This one originally went up in July of 2012. A Perfect Ending: It’s not a lesbian film, although its story line revolves around the unlikely and intense sexual relationship that develops between two women. It’s not erotica, although it features far more (and far longer, more nude … Continue reading

FYI: You’re Not Helping
Body Image / Desire / evolutionary psychology / Feminism / Gender / media / Rape

FYI: You’re Not Helping

It’s #TBT and time for a vintage column. This originally went up in September of 2013. Viral is as viral does. This week’s latest: FYI (if you’re a teenage girl) Cliff Notes version: a mother of teenage boys worries about the impact of teenage girls and their selfies on her sons. She encourages females to temper the … Continue reading

Is the Friendzone a Real Thing?
dating / Desire / evolutionary psychology / Gender / Long Term Relationships / Podcast

Is the Friendzone a Real Thing?

#TBT and time for a vintage episode. This one originally went up in September of 2012. Some young men who think of themselves as “nice guys who finish last” commonly complain: “all the girls go for jerks” and lament that the females they are interested in have shoved them into The Box From Which One … Continue reading

In My Basement with Johnny Goodtimes: 50 Shades of Magic Mike
BDSM / Body Image / censorship / Desire / Fantasy / Gender / media / Pornography

In My Basement with Johnny Goodtimes: 50 Shades of Magic Mike

It’s #TBT and time to pull a relic from the archives. This post originally went up in July of 2012. Johnny Goodtimes of the Philly Post invited me to another joyously creepy episode of In My Basement, the talk show that takes place in his super bizarre unfinished basement. We talk about how best seller 50 … Continue reading

“But Our Contract Says We’ll Have Sex Twice a Week….”
abstinence / Bisexuality / dating / Desire / Gender / Group Sex / Infidelity / LGBT / Long Term Relationships / Marriage / sexuality education

“But Our Contract Says We’ll Have Sex Twice a Week….”

Hey frans, it’s #TBT and time for a vintage podcast. This one originally went up in November of 2012.  You may recall that I posted about the sexuality training that I conducted with Widener University’s Residence Assistants. These young folks are on the front lines of dealing with the sexuality issues of college freshmen: directing them … Continue reading