Is Anal Sex Inherently Gay?
anal sex / Bisexuality / Coming Out / Desire / Fantasy / LGBT / orgasms

Is Anal Sex Inherently Gay?

Hey friends, it’s #TBT and time for a vintage column. This one is originally from September of 2008. DAAANG.  Question to the Sexpert: “A couple of weeks ago you answered a question from a girl whose boyfriend was really into anal, both giving and receiving. I read some of the comments people posted and I … Continue reading

Burlesque at Noir Con! Our 100th Episode!
Bisexuality / Body Image / censorship / Desire / Fantasy / Feminism / Gender / media / Pornography / Prostitution

Burlesque at Noir Con! Our 100th Episode!

#TBT and time for a vintage episode. This first went up in February of 2013. For fans of the noir genre, NoirCon is an idyllic haven. Brainy, beguiling folks from both the consumer and production end of the world of dark, crime-filled books gather to discuss the stories they love. And this year there was … Continue reading

What Does It Mean to Have Rape Fantasies?
abstinence / BDSM / Desire / evolutionary psychology / Fantasy / Gender / Long Term Relationships / Rape

What Does It Mean to Have Rape Fantasies?

Greetings, kittens. It’s #TBT and time for a vintage podcast. This one is an early, early episode and originally went up in March of 2012. It’s hard to know exactly how common any fantasy is. It’s already hard to do research on sexual behavior and attitudes, with the amount of taboo placed on talking honestly … Continue reading

I’ve never gotten off. What if I’m broken? Tales of (and solutions to!) Pre-orgasmia
abstinence / Anatomy/Physiology / Body Image / Desire / masturbation / orgasms / Podcast / Sex Toys

I’ve never gotten off. What if I’m broken? Tales of (and solutions to!) Pre-orgasmia

It’s #TBT kittens and time for a vintage podcast. This one originally went up October of 2012! “I used to be able to get off with no problem. Not anymore. Now I don’t even have much interest in sex and if I do have sex, I end up faking it.” “I’ve never had an orgasm. … Continue reading

Fat Sex: The Naked Truth
Bisexuality / Body Image / Coming Out / dating / Desire / Gender / Long Term Relationships / media

Fat Sex: The Naked Truth

I can’t remember the first time I heard the joke “having sex with a fat girl is like riding a moped. It’s a lot of fun, but don’t let your friends find out.”

I was definitely a little kid, though. And it struck me, like a verbal smack to the side of the head. It encapsulated so many things that, as a young girl, I was just beginning to see were going to be sold to me as truth. Continue reading

Cosplay Deviants: Undressing the Art of Playing Dress Up
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Cosplay Deviants: Undressing the Art of Playing Dress Up

Hey all, it’s #TBT and time for a vintage podcast. This one is hella old and originally went up in October of 2012. Happy Halloween, kittens! It’s my FAVORITE holiday of all. Even if you’re not swept up in celebrating Samhaim, you gotta love the candy and, of course, the costumes. But at Cosplay Deviants, … Continue reading

Chaturbate with Real Hot Couple
Body Image / Desire / Group Sex / Long Term Relationships / Marriage / NSFW / Podcast / Pornography

Chaturbate with Real Hot Couple

It’s #TBT and time for a vintage podcast! This one originally went up in July 2014! Michelle and Jack have discovered the secret to marriage. Not to every marriage, since each one is its own unique eco-system, but certainly to theirs: lots and lots of sex. And some of that sex is on cam for the … Continue reading