Hey friends, it’s #TBT and time for a vintage post. This one comes from our contributor from Asia, Dr Martha Lee! This originally went up in January of 2011. In Asia, what is one to do when one’s marriage conditions are right and your life partner has not appeared? Or, conversely, what should one do … Continue reading
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The Abortion Diaries
Hey friends, it’s #TBT and time for a classic post. This one was from contributor Martha Lee and originally went up in July of 2010 but it’s as relevant as ever. The women are doctors, subway workers, artists, activists, military personnel, teachers and students; they are Black, Latina , Jewish and White; they are mothers … Continue reading
Eros Coaching: Sex Ed isn’t Just About the Act
The following is Dr Martha Lee’s letter to the Straits Times Forum page and the Today newspaper. On 27 December 2011, Yahoo Singapore reported how the New Paper had reported that the Ministry of Education “has drafted a revised Sexuality Education Programme (SEP) to boost emphasis on abstinence over contraception.” I read with great dismay … Continue reading
Eros Coaching: All I Want for Christmas….
It started as a post on my Facebook: “Please comment: What I want for Christmas is…” The answers came fast and furious ranging from: More positive sexuality: “Comprehensive Sex Education Programs in Public Schools!” for Dorian Gomez, Art Director & Resident Curator at Erotic Heritage Museum of Las Vegas. “….end of religious conflicts on planet … Continue reading
Eros Coaching: When “No” is a Game
As a follow up to an earlier piece “Sexual Consent: When no is really no”, I would like to discuss when the act of saying no is actually a game women play; or, when no is actually a heavily coded yes. When I first read this piece “No” Means “No.” So Why Do Some Women Teach … Continue reading