Dealing with “Well Meaning” Slut-Shamers
abstinence / Body Image / Desire / evolutionary psychology / Feminism / Gender / media / Podcast

Dealing with “Well Meaning” Slut-Shamers

It’s Thursday and time for a #TBT vintage podcast. This one originally went up July 2014. The Christian mommy blogger who wrote “My Husband Doesn’t Need to See Your Boobs” was only the tip of the iceberg. Plenty of folks are aware that it’s inappropriate and mean to call someone a harlot directly, but it … Continue reading

The Fetishization of Virginity
abstinence / Anatomy/Physiology / Body Image / dating / evolutionary psychology / Feminism / Gender / Long Term Relationships / Marriage / media / safer sex / sexuality education

The Fetishization of Virginity

Throwback Thursday, y’all. Time for a vintage piece that originally went up in September of 2012. What is virginity? Many people only know it by its loss, which is identified as a penis entering a vagina for the first time. But what if you’ve had oral sex? Or an anal sex? You can get a … Continue reading

Welcome to My Basement! With Johnny Goodtimes
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Welcome to My Basement! With Johnny Goodtimes

Hey kittens, it’s Throwback Thursday, time for a vintage video that originally ran in November of 2010. Welcome, beloved readers. Take a break from reading and enjoy Part 1 of my interview with Johnny Goodtimes. We discuss how your weight affects who you are attracted to, why crickets have huge balls, the species that has … Continue reading

Sex and Music
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Sex and Music

Greetings, kittens. It’s Throwback Thursday and time for another classic column. This one originally ran in September of 2010, and has been updated for links. Pick one: sex or music. Imagine some terrifying and unnecessary hypothetical situation where you are forced to choose between being able to experience the pleasure of sexuality (alone or with … Continue reading

#TBT: What Causes the Best Actress Relationship Curse?
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#TBT: What Causes the Best Actress Relationship Curse?

Hey friends, The Academy Awards are this weekend. I’m re-running this piece from 2010 for ThrowBack Thursday and at the very end I add a couple updates since this was first written. Thankfully this year we have a couple actors of color nominated (unlike 2011 where we literally had none in any of the major … Continue reading

#TBT: Welcome to My Basement with Johnny Goodtimes, Pt. II
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#TBT: Welcome to My Basement with Johnny Goodtimes, Pt. II

Hey, it’s Thursday, so we’re taking a look at a throwback from November 2010. If you like Johnny Goodtimes (or quizzo, or live music or weirdness or being on a boat or any number of things) you should check out his epic event Quizzo Bowl X this weekend.  Welcome, peoples! Here is part II of … Continue reading

TBT: Moira Johnston Wants You To Be Topless
Anatomy/Physiology / Body Image / censorship / Coming Out / Desire / evolutionary psychology / Feminism / Gender / media / Podcast / Pornography / Sex in the news

TBT: Moira Johnston Wants You To Be Topless

Greetings, kittens! It’s Throw Back Thursday. Since it’s a spankin new year, let’s review one of 2013’s biggest interviews. This originally was posted in July of 2013. For more (and uncensored photos), check out Moira’s website.  It has been legal in New York state for women to be topless for two decades, but it wasn’t … Continue reading