The Polyamorists Next Door: Interview with Dr. Elisabeth Sheff
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The Polyamorists Next Door: Interview with Dr. Elisabeth Sheff

Hey friends, it’s #TBT so we’re featuring a classic episode that originally ran (you’ll note the super dated references immediately) in 2013. Polyamory  is like the band, fun.. Been around for, like, forever… but in 2013 they’re finally breaking through. Except, instead of doing a song with  Janelle Monáe, it’s having multiple simultaneous loving, sexual … Continue reading

Did You Hear About the Girl Who…. :Podcast with Dr. Elissa Henken Pt I
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Did You Hear About the Girl Who…. :Podcast with Dr. Elissa Henken Pt I

Hey kittens, it’s Throwback Thursday, so we’re checking out a vintage piece that originally ran in February of 2012. If you dig this episode, check out the second half here. Urban legends, rumors, gossip, jokes and folklore: they are part of our every day conversations and they shape the way we view almost everything. Have … Continue reading

Partner Won’t Initiate/ Safer Group Sex
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Partner Won’t Initiate/ Safer Group Sex

Tired of being the only initiator, a man performs an experiment where he stops making moves on his girl for a month, to see how she would respond. What are the protocols for safer sex when you’re getting in some crazy group action? For this week’s podcast I answered a couple listener questions. Listen to … Continue reading

It’s a double, rounding third….
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It’s a double, rounding third….

One of the biggest problems facing couples seeking a third is that there are a very small number of folks in the world who are interested in something more than a one-time hookup that isn’t a full-blown relationship. It asks a lot of them emotionally to invest in two people sexually on a regular basis with the knowledge that, at any time, the couple might change their mind and kick them to the curb. They’re like temps, without an agency to which they can return. Continue reading

Sexuality in Horror Movies
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Sexuality in Horror Movies

Note from Timaree: this is a repost of a column originally posted for Halloween 2011. If there is a genre of film that has more sexuality in it than porn, it’s definitely horror. Aside from the slasher genre’s penchant for showing boobies and the movie rule that only virgins can survive a serial killing maniac, you’ve … Continue reading

Open Relationships, Swinging and Whatnot Part II
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Open Relationships, Swinging and Whatnot Part II

Hopefully you heard Part I of this awesome podcast, where I met with the Delaware Valley Synergy social group. If not, you should totally check it out. It’s an articulate, brave and fun group of adults who have all chosen to be in open relationships. Some are swingers, others consider themselves polyamorous, but all share … Continue reading

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Swinging, Open Relationships and Whatnot

This weekend I was lucky enough to sit in on a meeting of the Delaware Valley Synergy in a gorgeous home in the suburbs of Philadelphia. This diverse group of people have one thing in common: open relationships.  All the people in this group are swingers, polyamorous or otherwise engaged in THE LIFESTYLE (as it … Continue reading