“But Our Contract Says We’ll Have Sex Twice a Week….”
abstinence / Bisexuality / dating / Desire / Gender / Group Sex / Infidelity / LGBT / Long Term Relationships / Marriage / sexuality education

“But Our Contract Says We’ll Have Sex Twice a Week….”

Hey frans, it’s #TBT and time for a vintage podcast. This one originally went up in November of 2012.  You may recall that I posted about the sexuality training that I conducted with Widener University’s Residence Assistants. These young folks are on the front lines of dealing with the sexuality issues of college freshmen: directing them … Continue reading

Eric Smith: The Geek’s Guide to Dating
dating / Gender / Long Term Relationships / Marriage / media

Eric Smith: The Geek’s Guide to Dating

It’s #TBT and time for a vintage podcast. This one originally went up in December of 2013. It’s timely as the subject of this interview has moved on to even more exciting things and the site he co-founded is saying its goodbyes.  I’m totally not sure how Eric Smith, co-founder of Geekadelphia, found time to … Continue reading

Chaturbate with Real Hot Couple
Body Image / Desire / Group Sex / Long Term Relationships / Marriage / NSFW / Podcast / Pornography

Chaturbate with Real Hot Couple

It’s #TBT and time for a vintage podcast! This one originally went up in July 2014! Michelle and Jack have discovered the secret to marriage. Not to every marriage, since each one is its own unique eco-system, but certainly to theirs: lots and lots of sex. And some of that sex is on cam for the … Continue reading

The Polyamorists Next Door: Interview with Dr. Elisabeth Sheff
Bisexuality / Coming Out / dating / Desire / Group Sex / Infidelity / Long Term Relationships / Marriage / Podcast / Race

The Polyamorists Next Door: Interview with Dr. Elisabeth Sheff

Hey friends, it’s #TBT so we’re featuring a classic episode that originally ran (you’ll note the super dated references immediately) in 2013. Polyamory  is like the band, fun.. Been around for, like, forever… but in 2013 they’re finally breaking through. Except, instead of doing a song with  Janelle Monáe, it’s having multiple simultaneous loving, sexual … Continue reading

The Fetishization of Virginity
abstinence / Anatomy/Physiology / Body Image / dating / evolutionary psychology / Feminism / Gender / Long Term Relationships / Marriage / media / safer sex / sexuality education

The Fetishization of Virginity

Throwback Thursday, y’all. Time for a vintage piece that originally went up in September of 2012. What is virginity? Many people only know it by its loss, which is identified as a penis entering a vagina for the first time. But what if you’ve had oral sex? Or an anal sex? You can get a … Continue reading

Should I break up my friend’s engagement?
dating / Infidelity / Long Term Relationships / Marriage / Stress

Should I break up my friend’s engagement?

Hey kittens, it’s Throwback Thursday so we’re checking out a vintage piece that originally ran in April of 2010. Question to the Sexpert: “My friend just got engaged to someone I think he should break up with. All the times I’ve hung out with them, she’s given me the creeps. I think she’s weird and … Continue reading

Long Term Love in a Monogamish World
Long Term Relationships / Marriage / Podcast

Long Term Love in a Monogamish World

After the sudden (and very public) breakup of his marriage, Tao Ruspoli was left pondering the existential question of whether a relationship is a failure simply because it ends. The director, whose previous films had explored everything from drug addiction to flamenco, went looking for answers in his next piece, Monogamish. Why do people pair off? … Continue reading