Should I break up my friend’s engagement?
dating / Infidelity / Long Term Relationships / Marriage / Stress

Should I break up my friend’s engagement?

Hey kittens, it’s Throwback Thursday so we’re checking out a vintage piece that originally ran in April of 2010. Question to the Sexpert: “My friend just got engaged to someone I think he should break up with. All the times I’ve hung out with them, she’s given me the creeps. I think she’s weird and … Continue reading

Long Term Love in a Monogamish World
Long Term Relationships / Marriage / Podcast

Long Term Love in a Monogamish World

After the sudden (and very public) breakup of his marriage, Tao Ruspoli was left pondering the existential question of whether a relationship is a failure simply because it ends. The director, whose previous films had explored everything from drug addiction to flamenco, went looking for answers in his next piece, Monogamish. Why do people pair off? … Continue reading

Sex and Music
Anatomy/Physiology / Desire / evolutionary psychology / Marriage / orgasms

Sex and Music

Greetings, kittens. It’s Throwback Thursday and time for another classic column. This one originally ran in September of 2010, and has been updated for links. Pick one: sex or music. Imagine some terrifying and unnecessary hypothetical situation where you are forced to choose between being able to experience the pleasure of sexuality (alone or with … Continue reading

Terrible Advice for Parents from Mike Rainey
dating / Gender / Long Term Relationships / Marriage / media / Podcast

Terrible Advice for Parents from Mike Rainey

“In hindsight, the cashier should have simply refused to sell me the body chocolate I bought. I’m 210 lbs. and covered in hair from neck to butthole.I applied it in the hopes of Jaime having a sweet tooth for some chocolate and a chubby gentleman. I applied it to my torso and waited patiently for … Continue reading

Can an App Keep Your Relationship Hot?
dating / Desire / Long Term Relationships / Marriage / Podcast

Can an App Keep Your Relationship Hot?

Maintaining the passion in a monogamous relationship: there’s an app for that. I chat with Erica Griggs of Passionly about their app, developed to keep busy couples in love about the science of long-term relationships, what people mean when they say “marriage is work,”  and all the fun parts of being in love. Listen to … Continue reading