Dealing with “Well Meaning” Slut-Shamers
abstinence / Body Image / Desire / evolutionary psychology / Feminism / Gender / media / Podcast

Dealing with “Well Meaning” Slut-Shamers

It’s Thursday and time for a #TBT vintage podcast. This one originally went up July 2014. The Christian mommy blogger who wrote “My Husband Doesn’t Need to See Your Boobs” was only the tip of the iceberg. Plenty of folks are aware that it’s inappropriate and mean to call someone a harlot directly, but it … Continue reading

Sex Positive Feminism: A How-To Guide
abstinence / Body Image / Coming Out / dating / Desire / Feminism / Gender / LGBT / media

Sex Positive Feminism: A How-To Guide

Hey friends, it’s #TBT and time for a vintage podcast. This one first went up in August of 2014. I was recently granted the rad opportunity to present at a DIY Skillshare conference in West Philadelphia and asked to share my how-to knowledge about being a sex positive feminist.  What do those words even mean? … Continue reading

Competitive Erotic Fan Fiction
Bisexuality / Desire / Erections / Fantasy / Fetish / Group Sex / Lubrication / media / orgasms / Podcast

Competitive Erotic Fan Fiction

Y’all, it’s #TBT and time for a classic podcast. This one originally went up in January of 2017. If you don’t already know about fan fiction, you betta ask somebody. Fine, I’ll tell you. Fans take characters from… literally whatever… and write their own stories. Sometimes it get sexual, especially in the case of slash fiction. And … Continue reading

Tough Cookies: Sexuality and Feminism with a Lesbian Slant
Bisexuality / Body Image / dating / Feminism / Gender / media / Podcast / Pornography / Prostitution / Race / Rape / Sex in the news / sexuality education

Tough Cookies: Sexuality and Feminism with a Lesbian Slant

Hey all, it’s #TBT and time for a vintage podcast that originally went up in May of 2012. Since this episode, Melissa Fabello has built an empire online for body positivity and feminism. Check out her more recent work. Melissa Fabello was growing tired of the lesbian blog scene. From her vantage, a space that … Continue reading

Pulling Out All The Stops
Anatomy/Physiology / censorship / contraception / Long Term Relationships / Male Ejaculation / media / orgasms / Pregnancy / safer sex / sexuality education / Sexually Transmitted Infections

Pulling Out All The Stops

Hey, kittens. It’s #TBT and time for a vintage column. This one originally ran in July of 2009 and has been updated. Questions to the Sexpert: “You posted a link to a story about how pulling out is just as effective as condoms. This has got to be wrong. What was the point of all … Continue reading