Gender, Kink and Margaritas
Anatomy/Physiology / BDSM / Body Image / Coming Out / Fetish / LGBT / media / orgasms / Podcast / Race / safer sex / Sex Toys / Transgender

Gender, Kink and Margaritas

It’s #TBT and time for a vintage podcast. This episode originally went up in March of 2014! I recently had the inordinate pleasure of peer pressuring trans artist and author Rebecca Kling and Sexploratorium’s Education Director, Samantha Turnpike, into drinking margaritas in the middle of the afternoon. We talked about everything from the Vagina Fairy and letting … Continue reading

Jacques: A Lad Mag for the New Millenium
Body Image / Desire / media / Podcast / Pornography

Jacques: A Lad Mag for the New Millenium

Hey friends, it’s #TBT and time for a vintage episode! This one originally went up in March of 2015! Before we could talk about the motivation behind Jacques, a retro-inspired “slick” magazine that features un-retouched film photos of natural beauties in the flesh, I had a burning question for founder Danielle Leder: who starts a … Continue reading

A Perfect Ending: Interview with the Star and Filmmakers
Bisexuality / Body Image / Coming Out / Desire / Fantasy / Feminism / Gender / media

A Perfect Ending: Interview with the Star and Filmmakers

It’s #TBT and time for a vintage podcast. This one originally went up in July of 2012. A Perfect Ending: It’s not a lesbian film, although its story line revolves around the unlikely and intense sexual relationship that develops between two women. It’s not erotica, although it features far more (and far longer, more nude … Continue reading

FYI: You’re Not Helping
Body Image / Desire / evolutionary psychology / Feminism / Gender / media / Rape

FYI: You’re Not Helping

It’s #TBT and time for a vintage column. This originally went up in September of 2013. Viral is as viral does. This week’s latest: FYI (if you’re a teenage girl) Cliff Notes version: a mother of teenage boys worries about the impact of teenage girls and their selfies on her sons. She encourages females to temper the … Continue reading