Eric Smith: The Geek’s Guide to Dating
dating / Gender / Long Term Relationships / Marriage / media

Eric Smith: The Geek’s Guide to Dating

It’s #TBT and time for a vintage podcast. This one originally went up in December of 2013. It’s timely as the subject of this interview has moved on to even more exciting things and the site he co-founded is saying its goodbyes.  I’m totally not sure how Eric Smith, co-founder of Geekadelphia, found time to … Continue reading

Karen BK Chan on Improvisational Sex
Anatomy/Physiology / Bisexuality / Body Image / contraception / dating / media / orgasms / Podcast / safer sex / sexuality education

Karen BK Chan on Improvisational Sex

It’s #TBT and time for a vintage podcast. This interview is a personal favorite and the work of Karen BK Chan continues to be something I reference regularly. This episode originally aired in July of 2014. Enjoy! When I came across Karen BK Chan‘s stunning video Jam, my life was forever changed for the better … Continue reading

A Visit to the National Sex Ed Conference
Anatomy/Physiology / BDSM / Body Image / contraception / dating / Fantasy / Gender / LGBT / masturbation / media / orgasms / Podcast / Pregnancy / Sex Toys

A Visit to the National Sex Ed Conference

Hey friends, it’s #TBT and that means revisiting a classic podcast! This one first went up in January of 2014. You can register now for the next National Sex Ed Conference being held in December! The magnificent Melissa Fabello and I went on a magical adventure to…. try to contain your jealousy… East Rutherford, NJ. … Continue reading

A List of Common Misconceptions
abstinence / Anatomy/Physiology / evolutionary psychology / Feminism / Gender / LGBT / masturbation / media / polyamory / Pornography / Prostitution / sex work

A List of Common Misconceptions

What was the first thing you remember being told about sex that was just…. wrong? More than almost any subject, we get factually incorrect information about human sexuality. Maybe an adult mislead you, perhaps a peer misunderstood how things really work, it could have even been in a classroom. Part of the issue is that … Continue reading

Fat Sex: The Naked Truth
Bisexuality / Body Image / Coming Out / dating / Desire / Gender / Long Term Relationships / media

Fat Sex: The Naked Truth

I can’t remember the first time I heard the joke “having sex with a fat girl is like riding a moped. It’s a lot of fun, but don’t let your friends find out.”

I was definitely a little kid, though. And it struck me, like a verbal smack to the side of the head. It encapsulated so many things that, as a young girl, I was just beginning to see were going to be sold to me as truth. Continue reading