Competitive Erotic Fan Fiction
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Competitive Erotic Fan Fiction

Y’all, it’s #TBT and time for a classic podcast. This one originally went up in January of 2017. If you don’t already know about fan fiction, you betta ask somebody. Fine, I’ll tell you. Fans take characters from… literally whatever… and write their own stories. Sometimes it get sexual, especially in the case of slash fiction. And … Continue reading

Pulling Out All The Stops
Anatomy/Physiology / censorship / contraception / Long Term Relationships / Male Ejaculation / media / orgasms / Pregnancy / safer sex / sexuality education / Sexually Transmitted Infections

Pulling Out All The Stops

Hey, kittens. It’s #TBT and time for a vintage column. This one originally ran in July of 2009 and has been updated. Questions to the Sexpert: “You posted a link to a story about how pulling out is just as effective as condoms. This has got to be wrong. What was the point of all … Continue reading

Liquor in the Front…
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Liquor in the Front…

Hey, kittens. It’s Throwback Thursday and time for a vintage piece from back in the day. This originally ran in September of 2010. Updated for links.  Question to the Sexpert: “Don’t know if you have anything on this one: the effect of alcohol on the ability to orgasm! Luckily, for most people (in my experience at … Continue reading

Sex and Music
Anatomy/Physiology / Desire / evolutionary psychology / Marriage / orgasms

Sex and Music

Greetings, kittens. It’s Throwback Thursday and time for another classic column. This one originally ran in September of 2010, and has been updated for links. Pick one: sex or music. Imagine some terrifying and unnecessary hypothetical situation where you are forced to choose between being able to experience the pleasure of sexuality (alone or with … Continue reading

What is Orgasmic Meditation? And Would You Try it in a Room Full of People?
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What is Orgasmic Meditation? And Would You Try it in a Room Full of People?

Taking the goal-oriented nature out of sex is something that I advocate often. When we conceptualize “good” sex as being that which leads to a reliable orgasm, we miss out on the opportunity to really explore, experience and play, and to really connect with another human. This is why I was excited to learn more … Continue reading

Tantra Wisdom with Anita DeFrancesco
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Tantra Wisdom with Anita DeFrancesco

Sexuality is an opportunity for both mind and body to be engaged, but our culture isn’t particularly adept at using the two simultaneously… or really even just being present in our bodies. This is one of the many applications of tantra. Meet Anita DeFrancesco: founder of Tantra Wisdom, psychologist, somatic movement therapist, yogi, surrogate and TV … Continue reading

Did You Hear About the Girl Who…. :Podcast with Dr. Elissa Henken Pt I
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Did You Hear About the Girl Who…. :Podcast with Dr. Elissa Henken Pt I

Hey kittens, it’s Throwback Thursday, so we’re checking out a vintage piece that originally ran in February of 2012. If you dig this episode, check out the second half here. Urban legends, rumors, gossip, jokes and folklore: they are part of our every day conversations and they shape the way we view almost everything. Have … Continue reading