Is the Friendzone a Real Thing?
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Is the Friendzone a Real Thing?

#TBT and time for a vintage episode. This one originally went up in September of 2012. Some young men who think of themselves as “nice guys who finish last” commonly complain: “all the girls go for jerks” and lament that the females they are interested in have shoved them into The Box From Which One … Continue reading

Sex in the Struggle: a Conversation with Ulysses “Butch” Slaughter
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Sex in the Struggle: a Conversation with Ulysses “Butch” Slaughter

Ulysses “Butch” Slaughter carries himself with  precision and calm confidence. Upon first meeting him I felt the need to sit upright in my chair, and possibly change into more formal clothes. Immediately, though, I was bowled over by his authenticity, as he frankly shared his origin story- which includes the traumatic memory of witnessing the … Continue reading