FYI: You’re Not Helping
Body Image / Desire / evolutionary psychology / Feminism / Gender / media / Rape

FYI: You’re Not Helping

It’s #TBT and time for a vintage column. This originally went up in September of 2013. Viral is as viral does. This week’s latest: FYI (if you’re a teenage girl) Cliff Notes version: a mother of teenage boys worries about the impact of teenage girls and their selfies on her sons. She encourages females to temper the … Continue reading

ADHD, Redesigning the Speculum, & Janelle Monae Comes Out as Pansexual
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ADHD, Redesigning the Speculum, & Janelle Monae Comes Out as Pansexual

World’s first penis and scrotum transplant. A fifth of gay men have avoided intimacy because of body shame. The Trump administration is moving sex ed towards nonsensical abstinence-only models. How ADHD can affect your love life. The creators of SESTA-FOSTA don’t care about sex workers. Let’s redesign the vaginal speculum. Joy Reid pretends she never … Continue reading

Georgina Beyer, Stockholm’s Blue Penis, & Online Dating for Women with Autism
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Georgina Beyer, Stockholm’s Blue Penis, & Online Dating for Women with Autism

Why does the government need to know your gender? Dolphins cheerleader says she faced workplace harassment for her virginity. Pope apologizes to sex abuse survivors, still doesn’t get the issue. Couch sex is the best. Commission criticizes Amazon over child sex dolls. Getting back your libido after giving birth. Monogamists are less satisfied with their … Continue reading

Is the Friendzone a Real Thing?
dating / Desire / evolutionary psychology / Gender / Long Term Relationships / Podcast

Is the Friendzone a Real Thing?

#TBT and time for a vintage episode. This one originally went up in September of 2012. Some young men who think of themselves as “nice guys who finish last” commonly complain: “all the girls go for jerks” and lament that the females they are interested in have shoved them into The Box From Which One … Continue reading

“But Our Contract Says We’ll Have Sex Twice a Week….”
abstinence / Bisexuality / dating / Desire / Gender / Group Sex / Infidelity / LGBT / Long Term Relationships / Marriage / sexuality education

“But Our Contract Says We’ll Have Sex Twice a Week….”

Hey frans, it’s #TBT and time for a vintage podcast. This one originally went up in November of 2012.  You may recall that I posted about the sexuality training that I conducted with Widener University’s Residence Assistants. These young folks are on the front lines of dealing with the sexuality issues of college freshmen: directing them … Continue reading