Is the Friendzone a Real Thing?
dating / Desire / evolutionary psychology / Gender / Long Term Relationships / Podcast

Is the Friendzone a Real Thing?

#TBT and time for a vintage episode. This one originally went up in September of 2012. Some young men who think of themselves as “nice guys who finish last” commonly complain: “all the girls go for jerks” and lament that the females they are interested in have shoved them into The Box From Which One … Continue reading

Girlfriendzone, Glitter Butt, & Unicornland
Sex in the news / Sex Links

Girlfriendzone, Glitter Butt, & Unicornland

Meet the plus sized Japanese Instagram star leading a body image revolution.  Pakistani women organize bike rally in protest of sexism. Cosmo tweets “how do you lose 44 pounds without exercising?” on story about woman with cancer. The endemic problem of sexual abuse in competitive swimming. Is Glitter Butt a dangerous trend? Women barred from … Continue reading

Saudi rape victim sentenced to 200 lashes, Lolita femininity, vagina selfie sticks
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Saudi rape victim sentenced to 200 lashes, Lolita femininity, vagina selfie sticks

What China gets right about relationships. Sensation of the moment: hot dudes reading. The cartoonish femininity of Lolita fashion. Catwoman is bisexual, obviously. “I don’t know what modesty is anymore.” “Post Traumatic Super Delightful” brings comedy to surviving sexual assault. Tips for talking to teens about dating and relationships. Vagina selfie stick? Register now for … Continue reading

Tuesday Sex Wrap Up
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Tuesday Sex Wrap Up

What’s a demisexual?  How about being “Mostly straight, most of the time.” Sexually transmitted MRSA? What America gets wrong about sex. 9 smartest marriage tips ever. Will having lots of partners wreck your chance at relationship success? Were most cave painters women? Silicone pussy foot. Yep. You read that right. Does monogamy value comfort over … Continue reading

When Can We Bang?
Desire / Long Term Relationships / Marriage

When Can We Bang?

Getting friendzoned is really a matter of fate. You don’t put yourself by waiting too long, no matter how many people like to think that. If she thinks you’re sexy and she wants your motion in her ocean, she’ll want it on the 22nd date as much as she wants it on the 2nd. If there is sex that you would get on date 3 that you wouldn’t get on date 13, then it’s just very temporary sex anyway. Continue reading