Is the Friendzone a Real Thing?
dating / Desire / evolutionary psychology / Gender / Long Term Relationships / Podcast

Is the Friendzone a Real Thing?

#TBT and time for a vintage episode. This one originally went up in September of 2012. Some young men who think of themselves as “nice guys who finish last” commonly complain: “all the girls go for jerks” and lament that the females they are interested in have shoved them into The Box From Which One … Continue reading

Friday Sex Links!
Sex Links

Friday Sex Links!

Elizabeth Smart speaks out on trafficking, cites abstinence-only ed for shaming rape victims. 3 women freed from kidnapper’s house in Ohio after nearly a decade. Delaware becomes 11th state to legalize same-sex marriage. An open letter to LGBT students at Christian colleges. H/t to Landi! Gender disparity and abandonment of partners with serious illness. Crazy … Continue reading

When Can We Bang?
Desire / Long Term Relationships / Marriage

When Can We Bang?

Getting friendzoned is really a matter of fate. You don’t put yourself by waiting too long, no matter how many people like to think that. If she thinks you’re sexy and she wants your motion in her ocean, she’ll want it on the 22nd date as much as she wants it on the 2nd. If there is sex that you would get on date 3 that you wouldn’t get on date 13, then it’s just very temporary sex anyway. Continue reading