Jacques: A Lad Mag for the New Millenium
Body Image / Desire / media / Podcast / Pornography

Jacques: A Lad Mag for the New Millenium

Hey friends, it’s #TBT and time for a vintage episode! This one originally went up in March of 2015! Before we could talk about the motivation behind Jacques, a retro-inspired “slick” magazine that features un-retouched film photos of natural beauties in the flesh, I had a burning question for founder Danielle Leder: who starts a … Continue reading

Investigating My Gay Agenda
Podcast

Investigating My Gay Agenda

According to its website, My Gay Agenda is “a bi-weekly podcast where we interview members of the LGBTQIA community and plan our world domination.”  Hosts CJ and Jenn Adams “are your co-conspirators in plotting whatever it is cisgender heterosexual people think gay people are doing.” And before we share the Ruba stage on Friday for our LIVE … Continue reading

Sex Positive Feminism: A How-To Guide
abstinence / Body Image / Coming Out / dating / Desire / Feminism / Gender / LGBT / media

Sex Positive Feminism: A How-To Guide

Hey friends, it’s #TBT and time for a vintage podcast. This one first went up in August of 2014. I was recently granted the rad opportunity to present at a DIY Skillshare conference in West Philadelphia and asked to share my how-to knowledge about being a sex positive feminist.  What do those words even mean? … Continue reading

Can You Be Honest About Your Sexual History?
Coming Out / contraception / dating / Desire / Long Term Relationships / Podcast / Rape / safer sex / Sexually Transmitted Infections

Can You Be Honest About Your Sexual History?

Hey friends, it’s Throwback Thursday and we’re checking out an episode of the podcast from February, 2014.  I answer a question about the ethics of honest sexual history discussions, and what is required for informed consent. Do you have to tell your partner about every little thing? Should they have to ask directly? Does it … Continue reading