Gourmet Sexual Experiences to Beat the Winter Blues: A Conversation with Shan Boodram
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Gourmet Sexual Experiences to Beat the Winter Blues: A Conversation with Shan Boodram

Shan Boodram and I have a number of things in common, including experience as media-based educators, a desire to get people talking about pleasure, and a violent disdain for cold weather. The dating coach and relationship expert known by her audience as “Shan Boody” and I chat about everything from enhancing masturbatory experiences to the … Continue reading

Right Wing Pedophilia Conspiracies, Mary Magdalene, & Body Positive Boudoir
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Right Wing Pedophilia Conspiracies, Mary Magdalene, & Body Positive Boudoir

Why are right wing conspiracy theories obsessed with pedophilia but ignoring actual sex crimes? New LGBT films you have to see in 2019. Writer learns important lesson limits of fertility science but misses larger lesson of not marrying someone hoping they’ll change. Mary Magdalene was maligned for years by a patriarchal church who refused to … Continue reading

Millennials are Killing Divorce, Babies Born with Syphilis, & Unicorns
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Millennials are Killing Divorce, Babies Born with Syphilis, & Unicorns

World’s largest science society stripping honors from scientists who are found to be harassers. Lack of sex ed means lack of understanding of consent. No jail time for the man who pleased guilty to strangling and sexually assaulting woman. Navigating consent in orgies.  The surprising role of the clergy in abortion rights before Roe. A … Continue reading

I’ve never gotten off. What if I’m broken? Tales of (and solutions to!) Pre-orgasmia
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I’ve never gotten off. What if I’m broken? Tales of (and solutions to!) Pre-orgasmia

It’s #TBT kittens and time for a vintage podcast. This one originally went up October of 2012! “I used to be able to get off with no problem. Not anymore. Now I don’t even have much interest in sex and if I do have sex, I end up faking it.” “I’ve never had an orgasm. … Continue reading

Explaining Breasts, Breakup Ambivalence, & Healing Potential of BDSM
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Explaining Breasts, Breakup Ambivalence, & Healing Potential of BDSM

The power of deep listening. Book for boys on puberty has epic fail explaining breasts. The myth of the male and female brains. Male-female couples could aim for more outercourse. Why isn’t same-sex marriage legal in Australia? Helping sex offenders rejoin society after serving their sentences. What is toxic masculinity? Most people are ambivalent about … Continue reading